Wednesday, May 21, 2014

The Authentic Attractiveness of My Church?

What would a stranger say about my church if he or she spent an hour or so on any given Sunday morning visiting with us?  More important would be the question, what would they have to say about our faith in God?

Having had the privilege of visiting and serving in numerous churches over the past number of years, I can say that the majority of Christ followers are attempting to be “authentic.”  Still, it is a systemic problem in the church that those who are visiting are made to feel lonely in a crowd.  I have intentionally stood in the entry area of churches, both large and small, which I have visited while having a questioning look on my face only to be ignored by people who are hurriedly moving about toward one place or another for who knows the reason.

During His short ministry on earth, though Jesus was often in a crowd of people, He was always looking for that one person who needed Him.  As recorded in Luke 8:45, in the account of the woman who had an issue of blood for twelve years, when she touched Jesus’ robe, He knew it immediately.  He then said, “Who touched me?”

I am afraid that we are much like Peter who questioned Jesus’ insight … “it could be anyone who touched you.”  Peter was focused on the forest instead of the trees.  And like him, we too have other lesser things on our minds … “gotta get to _________ (you fill in the blank).”  For Jesus, was anything more important than stopping to meet the need of someone along the way?  No!  As for that woman, she was healed immediately.

Years ago, a certain missionary was visiting our church.  Having been asked to speak to us, he told of a meeting in a small mission church in the area he was serving.  The indigenous pastor of that little church was late, in fact very late for the meeting.  When he finally arrived, two hours late, his reason was that he had met someone along the road with whom he stopped to visit.  This missionary was impacted by the care that pastor had for others. I must ask myself, what impact will I have on someone else who I encounter along my way?  Isn’t it time for me to show the care of Jesus to others whom I don’t know that just might need a caring new friend?

On those occasional church visits previously mentioned, there were men and women at the door who proudly wore “greeter” badges.  Their mantra always seemed to be, “Good morning; or, nice to see you; or, welcome.”  It seems that they were really glad to be standing there because they almost always wore a smile.  Still, unless I took the initiative and asked a question, that greeting was all that I got.

When I go to visit someone in their home, after ringing the bell, the door opens, I am greeted with a smile and hand-shake, invited in, offered a chair, and, maybe a glass of water.  Why shouldn’t the church be a similar inviting place?  Why shouldn’t we all be like Jesus who did more than just say “welcome?”   He always was looking for an opportunity and, in fact, we are told that, with a crowd all around, He looked up in a tree and found a man named Zachaeus.  That encounter changed Zachaeus’ life.  And, that’s just what He wants to do through us … we are to look for opportunities that just might change peoples’ lives.

My suggestion is that my church, the people with whom I’ve chosen to walk, would begin to slow down and, as it is sometimes said, “stop and smell the roses!”  A rose is a beautiful yet fragile flower which when handled with care gives great joy.  So it is with people … people whom we have yet to meet … people who may be in need and could use a little of Jesus through you and me.  How many people do you and I see on any given Sunday morning who we don’t know?  Stop … introduce yourself … make a new friend.  Just maybe you will be used to change a life for Jesus’ sake.  If anything, this attitude, which was also in Jesus, will change your own life!

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